Domestic Quest – BLW Cheesy Veggie Nuggets & Frozen Bananas

I’m on a roll! Cooked for Little Man again whilst he had his afternoon nap and this time it was appreciated much more than Thursdays Chickpea Patties.

On the menu tonight were Veggie Nuggets and Frozen Bananas for pudding. As mentioned before we are avoiding egg after a potential reaction a few weeks ago so I was happy to come across this egg free finger food recipe. This recipe is adapted from one in this incredible PDF which is available for free online, it is full of 100 recipes perfect for BLW. I adapted it slightly to include more veg, adding parsnip (little mans new fave) and carrot.

CHEESY VEGETABLE NUGGETS

4oz Fresh Brocolli

1 Parsnip Grated

1 carrot grated

6oz Cheddar Grated

4oz Dry Breadcrumbs (I used Panko as I had some left in the cupboard)

2 1/2 tbsp Water

2 1/2 tbsp olive oil

1 1/2 tsp baking powder

METHOD

1 – Preheat the oven to 190 deg C – 170 deg C (fan) – 375 deg F

2 – Steam Broccoli until cooked (about 5-7mins). Chop well.

3 – Combine Broccoli along with other ingredients and mix.

4 – Form into nugget or sausage shape (whatever your little one can hold easiest) and place onto greaseproof paper on a baking tray.

5 – Bake for 20-25 mins. Serve Warm.

2014-04-05 20.19.06They came out really well and held their shape in LM’s hand. The sweetness of the parsnip was a really nice compliment to the Broccoli and Cheese, I think these will also be great for lunchboxes and picnics cold.

2014-04-05 20.19.36I served LM’s with some Cous Cous, and after his negative reaction to stronger flavours the other day, I mixed it with some greek yoghurt and cumin to try and get him used to stronger flavours, he loved the nuggets, but did not like the Cous Cous, must have been a new texture as I gave him some minus the dressing and he reacted the same way! I think next time I will try serving them with a tomato based dip and some chicken. In my bad mummy move of the day I had used all of the veg cooking so there was none to accompany his dinner, but he’d had fruit for breakfast, veg with his lunch, and he had fruit for dessert! Speaking of dessert….

2014-04-05 20.20.24He has bananas so much that I wanted to mix things up for him a little, and in the aforementioned PDF there is a very straight forward recipe for Frozen Bananas, cover fingers of Banana in Natural Yoghurt (can you tell I had some Yoghurt to shift!?) and then roll them in Wheatgerm, whack them in the freezer and a little while later you have some healthy Bluth Bananas fit for your little one. He loved them and devoured four bits, his reaction to the coldness was priceless but he really enjoyed them.

 

My Quest to become a Domesticated Mum!

The first word that people would use to describe me would definitely not be Domestic….creative maybe, lazy possibly, determined and prone to obsessing…definitely! So this is my quest…I am determined to become a better mother to my 7 month old little man and a better wife for my long suffering husband, using my current skills and trying to develop some more domesticated ones along the way.

I’ll be updating this blog mainly as a way to keep myself motivated, but also want to have some fun and discuss things that make us feel like we are doing a great job for our kids and also sometimes the things we wish we could be better at or even just little silly things that make you feel like you’ve had a rubbish day.

I think the bulk of my posts will be about the new food I’ve tried with LM, or the new sensory play that we have enjoyed and some of the more creative things that I do for my family, as even though these aren’t traditionally classed as motherly or parental duties, I think that creativity is so important and want LM to be super creative and imaginative growing up, plus it is the thing I enjoy most in the world and as a result I bring an enthusiasm to it that I just can’t apply to domesticity.

But nonetheless I am going to try hard to step out of my comfort zone both as a mother and a wife at least once a week, but hope for it to be more, some of the things may seem small, but so far each action has made me feel much better about my place in the parenting world, and after all that is what is important.

The quest I am setting myself is:

– To make at least two new meals a week and enjoy them with LM and Hubs. This is probably the biggest challenge for me as I really don’t enjoy cooking, baking I love, but cooking just stresses me out, I time things all wrong and get flustered, plus Hubs loves cooking so much that over time it has meant that he does most of the cooking in the house.

– To undertake play, particularly sensory play with LM every day and try at least one new activity a week. As an avid pinterester, I have pinned way more activities than I have tried, but now that Monkey is able to sit up so well I am eager to get stuck in.

– To acknowledge the things that I do that make me feel like I might actually be pulling this whole Mum thing off, rather than fixating on the things I feel I’ve done wrong, or on my negatives.

– To help any other mums out there who feel like what they are doing might not be enough, even though it is more than likely more than your little one could ever need or imagine, we are all doing things differently but we all need to stick together and support one another through the highs and lows of being a parent.

I’m also going to blog about things that make our lives easier as parents and I’m sure there will be a sprinkling of geekery along the way!

Right lets get cracking!

To Spoonfeed or Not to Spoonfeed?!?

Little Man is now nearly 6 months old! It’s going terrifyingly quickly but I’m learning quickly… as soon as you’ve got one thing figured out something else comes along! For us this is now the minefield of weaning.

After a lot of procrastination and stressing we have finally decided to do a combination of the two main methods, baby led and traditional weaning, mainly as it is going to fit into our lives easier that way, my husband works shifts and we can’t always guarantee we could eat together, we don’t always cook fresh each night and sometimes (between me and you) I’m just plain lazy if I’m on my own.

At the moment the plan is to spoon feed little man his breakfast which at the moment is mashed banana but as of next week will be porridge and then let him feed himself for lunch and dinner with occasional mashed veg if we are in a rush or at a friends house where the mess and time elements of BLW are more of an issue. I know this goes against how a lot of people do BLW but to be honest it’s going to work for us and although it’s taken me a while to accept mixing both, as long as it works for us, that is all that matters. Also I think it’s important to remember that spoon feeding and force feeding are two different things, once little man lets me know he has had enough, I stop.

I’ve struggled a lot making decisions about weaning and I’ve realised that a lot of my struggles with making a decision comes down to feelings I still have about deciding to bottle feed little man, it’s the next big decision that directly effects his health and well being and deep down I still have the guilt that many bottle feeding mamas feel about not being able to feed their baby, even though I know stopping was the right decision for us and helped me keep my sanity, so I have been over thinking it and worrying about making the wrong decision again. I also find it hasn’t helped that a lot of opinions are quite polarised so it is difficult to find advice on combining methods in a way that works for you as an individual family, it also seems BLW is a natural step on from breastfeeding, and as such much of the advice is based around a breastfeeding baby. Because of this I found the incredibly useful book Weaning Made Easy by Rana Conway, it is a non biased look at both approaches, pros and cons of each and also a guide to combining the two in a way that suits you, and although much of it is common sense I found that it made me feel less crazy for obsessing and struggling so much with the decision to combine self feeding and baby led.

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So far he seems to be enjoying both methods, he is definitely hungry so I’m glad I’m feeding him one meal so I know he’s actually getting something (I know he doesn’t need a lot but he definitely wants something), but I’m enjoying watching him discover food during lunch and dinner. We started him slightly early as he’s been sat up on his own for a few weeks and he seemed ready, so, so far he’s only had veg & fruit – banana (mashed and split in half), avocado, steamed carrots and roasted and mashed sweet potato, I think the carrots have been his favourite as they hold their shape long enough for him to have a good gum. Although I haven’t yet made a puree, I did spoon feed him some mashed sweet potato tonight, whilst also letting him go crazy with his hands on a ball of it, I think i will mash rather than puree when I do use this method so that he still has to chew the lumps and won’t just get used to swallowing, but I do plan on making some fruit purees to mix in with his porridge and eventually, yoghurt.

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I am looking forward to him turning 6 months next week and being able to branch out to meals other than veg & fruit. Stay tuned as I hope to share some of our favourite food discoveries.

Please share any favourite recipes or tips and feel free to discuss any struggles you’ve had deciding on the best way to wean your little one.