Little Man has been eating for over 2 months now and he loves, I mean LOVES food!
Our start to the weaning process was a bumpy one, it is probably the thing I have procrastinated over the most so far. I was torn between weaning the traditional and baby led way. I stopped breastfeeding early on as it just did not work for us, I was edging closer to PND and the fact that I was over the moon in love with LM and everything about him except the feeding is what made me stop. I was dreading each feed, just the thought of him latching on made me cry, this isn’t how I wanted to be spending that precious time with my new baby, so I started combination feeding and pumped as much as possible in between, I managed to pump for 6 weeks until I was hit with mastitis and after months of post partum issues, it was the last straw, it was my umptenth round of antibiotics and unbelievably painful, so I started weaning off and about two weeks later finished. Although I know this was absolutely the right decision for me and LM, I still feel like I failed and struggle with the decision I made, weaning was the next big feeding decision and I didn’t want to make the wrong choice again (even though as I said, I do know it was the right thing to do for us….honestly us mothers don’t make it easy for ourselves do we!?)
Just before his half birthday I decided to try a bit of both and let LM lead the way in his preferences, my main worry was that if baby led he would be unwilling to take a spoon should the situation call for it, it is also such a natural progression from breastfeeding and as such much of the advice is tailored to mums who are still breastfeeding (these women have nothing but my respect, and teeny tiny bit of my envy). But LM loves to feed himself, so although I occasionally feed him porridge or mash he usually grabs the spoon and does it himself, so we are officially doing self feeding, if not full fledged BLW, and I love it, I thought that eating out of the house was going to be difficult and squeezing some puree out of a pouch would be quicker and easier, but its so much easier to hand him a bit of what I’m having, if its not laden with salt, sugar and fat, or grab a few veggie and bread sticks out of my bag. I think just like with feeding and parenting in general, what works for you is best for you. Traditional weaning works for some people, a mixture works for some people, I’m definitely not adverse to feeding him if the situation calls for it, and full on by the book BLW works for others.
|One of his many Banana eating approaches!
So far LMs diet has consisted mainly of Fruit, Veg and things like toast and corn/rice cakes with cream cheese or mashed banana and avocado, but now he is really starting to consume things we are taking it up a notch, and starting to give him meals and as of this week will start tailoring our meals to be able to include him, so we are all eating the same thing.
|Enjoying his Fish Cakes
In the first two months of BLW, LM has had:
Avocado (on its own and mashed on corn/rice cakes and tortillas)
Some of his Uncles Chicken Sandwich
Eggless French Toast
His absolute faves are Mango – he just strips it from the skin, Cucumber – we now cut the skin of after a scary choking incident, Sweet Potato – roasted, mashed, mixed with fish, he loves it, and Pasta – he has a little suck and then the whole thing disappears!
I am looking forward to giving him some different combinations and new flavours as his journey continues and might throw in some smaller things this week so he can practice his ever emerging pincer skills!
So how are you weaning your little one, and do you feel pressure to choose correctly or haunted by any past decisions? What are your little ones favourite foods?